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Sharklauncher
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January 8, 2010
Children are your responsibility, not your personal sheet of blank paper. They aren’t there for you to scribble on, crumple up, and throw away if you don’t like them. Isn’t it weird how the religious wackjobs can howl about how a fetus is a human being that must be granted the privilege of existence, but once it pops out, it reverts to being a possession, a thing that mommy and daddy can do with as they please?
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November 19, 2009

THE war of words between atheists and religious believers has entered a new chapter with the launch of Northern Ireland’s first ever humanist advertising campaign.

The British Humanist Association (BHA) yesterday unveiled a billboard with the slogan:

Please Don’t Label Me. Let Me Grow Up And Choose For Myself.

Located on one Belfast’s busiest routes, the poster is a follow-up to its atheist buses campaign that ran earlier this year in parts of the UK.

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Reverend David McIlveen from the Free Presbyterian Church ranted:

It is none of their business how people bring up their children. It is the height of arrogance that the BHA would even assume to tell people not to instruct their children in their religion.

What Reverend McIlveen is missing is that this campaign isn’t telling people not to teach their children their beliefs, but rather to leave the labeling and indoctrination out of their childrens’ lives.  It’s a fine line to draw, for sure.  I liken it to teaching historical religions (I think most of us learned of the Greek gods in school, no?).

I don’t feel as if it’s wrong to tell a child, “Mommy and Daddy believe X, but we want you to decide for yourself what’s right.”  Yes, of course the child will likely seek to emulate his or her parents, but keeping this open line is important in development, always reinforcing the child’s individual right to choose.

This is all secondary to the campaign’s primary message: Stop labeling children for something that they cannot have decided that they are.  It pigeonholes social and mental development in the worst way, forcing children into particular lines of thought before allowing their own powers of reason to decide what’s right for them.

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October 20, 2009
I know or met several people who said that while they don’t believe in god, they plan on raising their future children on religious views because of ‘tradition’. My opinion about this is - you don’t need religion for tradition. You can make sure you have dinner every Friday night without it being about welcoming the Sabbath. You can set aside a day each year to celebrate love and family, and exchange gifts, without it signaling the birth of Christ. You can make sure to give thanks every day without it being thanks to a certain God. Then you can give your children the stability of traditions and also the freedom to make up their own minds about religions.
Maafna meets Desultory: (Wonderful examples, thank you.)
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